As a christian girl, you are here on a mission for God. A non-christian boyfriend will not share this same mission with you because he does not serve the same king as you. Our mission for God does not entail us to date someone to convert them to christianity. When we get into a relationship, it should be one where we have many things in common, including your faith. This way, the two of you can worship and praise Jesus together and overcome your battles in prayer instead of the bottle. When you decide to date a non-christian, there will be a strain on your relationship from the very start because he won’t fully understand you. He won’t understand why you do things a certain way or why you don’t conform to the things of this world. You’ll never be able to openly share how you’re feeling or what you’re thinking because they just won’t get it. Date someone who can help you grow in Chris and help you on your Godly mission, not push you away from it.